In the last few years I’ve really struggled to find what I am looking for in a church family. For the most part, it’s a moot point. As a minister I don’t get to shop much for a church family; I’m pretty much bound to the congregation I preach at and though I strive to mold that church into the model of what I think Jesus wants out of his congregation the leaders and the congregation have a lot to do with whether those changes are made. My wife and I have long asked ourselves, “What congregation would we go to if I were a plumber who just moved to this town and were looking for a congregation to be a member of?”
I should write a book about my journey. But here’s the short version. I knew that I did not want to be in any of the dead, tradition-for-tradition’s sake, culturally irrelevant churches that are dying all around America (and sadly, that I was a minister in until coming to my current congregation). When the average age of the membership is over 60, the worship style is stuck in the 50’s and the baptisms are measured in single digits per decade you know that this is not a church you want to be a part of. That’s a no-brainer.
So, on Saturday nights and other times when I could attend a church as a visitor I would seek out the uber-contemporary churches, sure that they were what I would want if I were seeking a church. For the most part I liked them better than the 1950’s era churches I was used to. There was more energy, the music was more like what was playing in my car, the dress was more casual (why that mattered, I don’t know), and the sermons were more interesting. Not only that, but these were the churches which were growing: their average age was in the 20’s, 30’s at most, the parking lots were full, their buildings were huge. I would leave those churches feeling better about church and wishing that I were a part of them instead of the dying church I was in.
Yet. Yet. Yet, something was still missing. It was almost like going from spinach to cotton candy. Sure, it tasted better, but I didn’t feel like I was actually full. I couldn’t see those churches being a place where I would grow if i were a member. Sure, I enjoyed the show and the professionalism and the music, but that’s not really what being a part of the Body of Christ is all about. It finally occurred to me that things like musical style and dress code (or lack thereof) shouldn’t really matter in the long run: those things are not what make a church. I enjoyed the show in the contemporary church (it was like getting a free Christian concert), but could not see a lot of growth coming from there and the message preached was usually superficial and trite. They seemed to be appealing to the lowest common denominator; not really challenging the congregation for fear of losing numbers.
What was the answer? I thought about home churches, even liturgical churches, but it all seemed lacking.
I think I’ve finally found some guys who are doing it right. What is “right”? “Right” is faithfully proclaiming the Gospel, preaching the Word unashamed (one church I went to was loathe to quote scripture or have a cross displayed for fear of offending the lost), teaching the truth about sin, punishment, redemption, grace and sanctification while still being culturally relevant and having an impact on the world. Translated, this means a church that has muscial and preaching styles which speak to the culture while not diluting or changing the message of the Gospel. You can play music that sounds cool which says “Jesus is Lord and we are sinners in need of saving” instead of “Jesus is my boyfriend and I’m so happy”. You can preach messages which are interesting to listen to and which speak to people in our culture without them being sappy, pragmatic, “How to be happier in our culture” sermons. You can be a church that speaks to our culture without selling out to it. You can impact the world with mission and love while still proclaiming the Jesus is Lord and the only way to be saved.
I’m glad to know that there are churches doing this. Although my experience with them is only through podcasts and books, I think Mark Driscoll’s Mars Hill Church in Seattle is doing this. Matt Chandler’s Village Church in Texas is doing this. They are actually impacting and changing their culture without selling out to it. Here locally I’ve been glad to visit Sojourn Church in Louisville on a regular basis; I can honestly say that if I moved to Louisville as a plumber I would be more than glad to be a member there. The worship is very relevant to today’s culture but their message is one of belief, repentance, and obedience to Jesus as Lord. They speak the language of the culture, but in so doing they are speaking the Message of the Gospel. And the cool thing is these churches are large, growing, appeal to younger people, and are making a difference in their cities. They are showing that you can be “successful” in our culture while still being faithful to the Gospel.
My goal as a minister is to model that in my own congregation: to reach our culture (which is very different from that of downtown Louisville) without compromising the Gospel. Instead of spinach, instead of cotton candy, it’s savory meat that only the Lord can prepare.